Self & Direction 23 May 2020 · 1 min

Love Strategies

Even love has its own strategy. What It is when one person is not fulfilling anothers strategy that we find issues. How - Elicit each other’s love strategy by…

Even love has its own strategy.

What

It is when one person is not fulfilling anothers strategy that we find issues.

How

  • Elicit each other’s love strategy by asking Can you remember a time when you knew you were totally loved? A specific time?

  • As you think of that time, in order to know that you are totally loved is it absolutely necessary for you to be: Taken placed and bought things or shown in other ways

  • Or That you hear it in that special way with that special tone of voice

  • Or That you be touched in that special way

  • Decide and communicate how you prefer to be loved

  • Develop the habit of consistently utilizing your partner’s love strategy by: Remain conscious of not falling back into fulfilling your own strategy

  • Continue to communicate; state it how you want it, reinforcing new strategies with acknowledgment of and positive response to it fulfilment